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Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 7:19 am
Author: angel6677
Wow what luck finding this site. so informative.

I was born in South Africa, to english parents, have fallen in love with a kurdish man and I live in Austria. Quite a mouthful. I went on the site because I am looking for a beautiful kurdish name for my daughter who will be born in 5 weeks. I adore the kurdish culure and people.

In Austria there are so many kurdish people that have left turkey because of the hardships they face. I hav been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and he has only now started opening up to me. He wants nothing more than to be with his people but has to try and make a life for himself here.

The pregnancy was an unexpected surprise and his family wont accept her, so we have no real future. That is why I want her to have something of his. And being a girl there is no hope. But we are soul mates and she was concieved in love, greatest love of my life, and in life sometimes we just have to accept the way things are.

I would also love to make friends as I have no family in Austria. And all my friends are kurdish, and we communicate in german, so its a bit hard. Especially since german isnt our mother tounge.

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 4:07 pm
Author: Lost
hello agnel6677, welcome to roj bash Kurdistan, its our honour to have another non-kurds here hope you enjoy your staying and hope to hear and see more & more of your posts...wellcome a thousands of time...

everyone has joy and sorrow time, when you passing through your sorrow time you have to be strong i know that it hurts but after every falling is stronger stand,you have to be patient and full of hope so as to change your destingy it is life.. testing every one no one will live in joy 4ever..anyway hope you be Okey and healthy and warrior for your angel's coming..
i'm Sîver from southern kurdistan ( Iraqi kurdistan) - Hewlêr(arbil), 19 years old college student..

we have so many beautiful kurdish female names can not be counted but here i'm gonna list my favourit to you..

Dêrîn = ancient
Sana = simplicity
Evîn = Love
Aştî = peace
Barîn = raining
Hêşû
Bestee
Nîgar
Rûbar = river
Awaz = melody
Lane

for now i can't remember others but here is many others..

Nawî Kiç (female names)...

Adan Adar Agirîn Ahîn Ajda Ala Alik Alîn Alva Ara Ardil Arêz Arezo Arezu Arîman Arîn Ariyan Asan Asê Asteng Aştî Avşîn Avan Avêsta Avêste Avîn Avreng Awat Awaz Axîn Axînk Azadî Azrîn

Badil Bahar Balnexşîn Banê Barîn Bawan Bazê Baziyan Bêdar Befraw Befrîn Begîxan Belalûk Belîcan Belqis Bêmal Benav Benaw Benaz Bênaz Berbijîn Berdar Berdil Bêrî Berîcan Bêrîcan Bêrîcan Bêrîn Bêrîvan Bersîn Besê Bestin Bexşan BexşînBêxal Beyan Beybîn Beybûn Bêzar Bezîn Bîşeng Bişkoj Bişkurîn Bihar Bijîn Bilêsa Bilêse Bînahî Binar Binav Binefş Binevş Biyan Bohar Boran Bûken

Çakîn Canan Canê Çavşîn Çavgeş Çavreş Çawgeş Cawîdan Çawrê Çêker Çeleng Çemê Çengzêr Cerê Çerîn Cewê Cewher Cîhan Çilo Çîmen Çinar Çinûr Cîran Çirîsk Çirûsk Çistê Ciwanê Ciwangul Ciwanî Ciwannaz Ciwanrû Çorîn Çûçê

Damaw Darçîn Darîn Daristan Dastan Delal Dengîn Derav Dêrsim Derzîn Desmal Devken Dîlan Dilar Dilaram Dilare Dilawaz Dilber Dilcan DildarDilê Dilgerm Dilîn Dilîn Dilistan Dilkanî Dilnaz Dilok Dilron Dilsoz Dilvîn Dilxoş Dilxwaz Dilxweş Dilxweş Dindik Dirê Dîristan Dîroka Dixaz Diyarî Doman

Elmas Esma Esmê Esmercan Esmerxan Estêre Evîn Ewrîn Exter Eyşan Ezcan

Felek Fener Feraşîn Fîdan Firmêsk

Gazî Geşe Geşê Gêlas Gelavêj Gelawêj Gerden Gerden Gerdengaz Gewher Gewrê Gewrê Gezing Girav Glare Govend Gozê Gozel Grîvan Guhtem Guhtem Gul Gulşen Gulşênî Gulabax Gulale Gulan Gulan Gulasor Gulav Gulazer Gulazêr Gulbehar Gulbihar Gulbihar Gulcan Gulçin Gulçîn Gulda Guldan Gulê Gulê Gulî Gulîk Gulîn Gulistan Gulîstan Gulîxan Gulîzar Gulîzer Gulîzêr Gulnam Gulnar Gulnar Gulnaz Gulnîşan Gulperî Gulroj Gulsînem Gûzê

Hatîcan Havîn Hêja Hejîn Helal Hêlan Helat Helbîn Helez Hêlîn Heliz Helvîn Hemayîl Hemyan Henar Hêra Hermê Hêro Hetav Hetaw Hêva Hevdem Hevîn Hevjîn Hevovê Hevrê Hevta Hewar Hewaxan Hewîn Hewrê Heycan Heynar Hezar hezar Hinar Hinar Hîran Hîvî Hîvîdar Hizar Hoşeng Hojîn Hozan

Jarê Jîlwan Jîman Jînda Jînê Jîrê Jîvîn Jiyan Jiyar

Kaban Kahîn Kajîn Kani Kanîk Kawê Kejal Kejal Kejê Keser Kevî Kevok Kewser Kezîzer Kinar Kinê Kinêr Kirîstan Kîstan Koçer Koser Kulîlk Kurdê Kurdistan Kvrîn

Laleş Lalezar Lawlaw Lêlav Leman Lence Lerzan Lêvken Leylan Leylê Leymîn Lezîn Lîlyan Lîza Lolav Lorî Lorîcan Lorîn Lorkê

Maşa Mangeşew Mebest Mehrîban Mehrîcan Mehrîvan Mejbîr Mêmê Mendal Mercam Mêrdîn Merîvan Mest Mestan Mêxek Meyro Mîdya Mîdya Mihabad Mîran Mirarî Mirarîxan Miryem Mizgîn Muhabad

Nalîn Narê Narîman Narîn Narîncan Navbihar Nawxoş Naz Nazdar Nazê Nazenîn Nazenîn Nazgul Nazik Naznaz Neşmîl Neşmîn Nêrgiz Nêrîn Nermê Nermîn Nesrîn Nevîn Newal Newbohar Newroz Nexşîn Nêzîk Nîşan Nîştîman Nîdar Nîgar Nîgar Nîroj Norcan Nûjen

Omed Orfa Qeşem Qumrî

Pakdil Pakîze Pelşî Pelîn Pêlîn Pepole Perçem Perî Perîşan Perîşan Perîgul Perînaz Perîxan Perîxan Perjîn Pervîn Perwane Perwîn Pexşan Pexşan Peyman Peyman Pîşeng Pirşeng Pirşing Pirjîn Pîroz Porşeng Pore

Rana Raperîn Razaw Rêjîn Rendê Rengîn Rengîn Rewşa Rewşen Rêzan Rihan Rîhan Rîken Rindê Robîn Roj Rojawelat Rojbîn Rojda Rojê Rojgar Rojgul Rojhat Rojhelat Ronahî Ronak Ronak Rondik Rûciwan Rûgeş Rûken Rûzerîn

Sarê Sazan Selwer Semen Serbar Sercan Serçinar Serferaz Serfiraz Sergul Sergul Sêvê Sêwê Seyran Sîber Sîber Sîlav Sînem Sînemxan Sîpel Sîsik Sîsin Sitî Sitîxan Solîn Sorê Sozan Stêrê Sûlav Suma

Şadan Şadîman Şala Şana Şanaz Şanaz Şayan Şehrîban Şelal Şêlaz Şemam Şengê Şepal Şepirze Şermîn Şevba Şevîn Şewba Şewnim Şîlan Şilêr Şilove Şinê Şînî Şino Şirîn Şirînnaz Şîwen Şoreş

Taban Tara Tavîn Têkoşîn Talar Tanya Telar Têlîcan Têlîxan Tenya Teyrê Tilove

Vejîn Vînê Viyan

Warşênî werîna Wesîla

anê Xanim Xanzad Xatîn Xatûn Xebat Xecê Xelat Xêlîcan Xemê Xemgîn Xemlîn Xerman Xewn Xezal Xifşê Xîsar Xoşeng Xonçe Xoxê Xunav Xunaw Xuzî

Yardil Yardil Yargul Yekcan

Zara Zelal Zemrîd Zerê Zergul Zerî Zêrîn Zerîxan Zernîşan Zerya Zeytîn Zeytûn Zîlan Zilfê Zînê Zînet Zoya Zozan

.. and so sorry for bad english, my english not so well.. probably Diri will help you with best advices and most another beauty names ... both of Evîn & allina are another non-kurd females who married to kurdish guy, i'm sure they'll appear and help you with ueseful things..

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 5:10 pm
Author: allina
Hi,dear angel6677.I am also not Kurdish.My husbond is kurd.On this side you can realy find to much usefull information,as i did.
Congradulations with your pregnancy!!!It is the best gift of the life!
Ofcourse you must be strong,like Siver said.Because the God loves strong people.
Family of my husbond also was not very happy of me at first,but now everything is fine.
For girl i like most of the name Nasrin- flower.
By the way Kak Diri said to me that he has the picture of this flower.Maybe he can show it here?
Dear Angel6677, i wish you always smile :D :D :D

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 5:15 pm
Author: allina
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Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 8:50 pm
Author: Barış
Welcome to RBK!

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 9:26 pm
Author: Diri
Hello Angel :)


Welcome to Roj Bash Kurdistan, dear sister... Congratulations on your pregnancy! :D I wish you a healthy and beautiful child - full of joy and laughter...

It's good to hear that you have found a man to love - who loves you back... May God bless your union...

Are you married yet? Or do you have plans to get married?

I see you call him "Boyfriend" - this may be the reason why his family hasn't yet accepted you: you should get married - a child born outside of marriage is considered illegitimate by Muslims (Kurds are traditional Muslims - mostly - and that is why you'll have to work on gaining acceptance from them in your situation (as a non-Muslim woman who's having a child outside of marriage)... The best cure for their prejudice and suspicion is that you marry their son (your boyfriend - the father of your child) - and spend time with them (his mother, sisters and other women in his family)...

Excuse my question - but are you a black South African, a white South African or an asian South African?

There are many beautiful Kurdish given names for both male and female...

For a girl - I think I like these names:

Zêrîn = Golden
Sema = (Religious) Dance
Aştî (Ashti) = Peace
Aşna (Ashna) = Harmonious
Banû = Lady
Azade = Free
Agrîn = Like a Flame
Cûdî (Judi) = Name of the mountain which according to Kurdish legend is where Noah's Arc went to shore...
Hêlîn = Nest


And that's that for now... :)


@Allina

I haven't had a chance to ask my mother to identify the flower (NESRÎN) for me yet - so you'll have to wait till Thursday probably! :) I promise to post a picture of the flower when I am SURE which one it is... :D

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 6:39 am
Author: raman82
You seem independent yet very loving , well all I have to say is , you should highly think about getting married , because with time everybody accepts unless his family is really staunch , thats also a factor . My one cousin fell inlove with a white girl but his parents are really staunch and would not allow it but on the other hand my cousin was dating a white girl and his mom had no problems with it except that they live as a joint family , which she had no problem with because she grew in a single parent family and loved the family atmosphere , so it really depends on his family . Another thing , not that im doubting your bf , but you should insist on meeting his parents , maybe they are ok with it and your bf is saying something else , not trying to sound mean but you should get to the crux of this . you have a child involved.

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Wed Feb 27, 2008 7:54 pm
Author: Evin
Hi angel6677 and welcome to RBK!

I'm sorry to hear about your troubles and sincerely hope everything works out for you, your partner and your baby - fingers crossed that she'll be happy and healthy always.

Stay strong angel, you never know what might happen in the future (and I'd be amazed if a Kurdish family truly turned their back on one of their own, especially a newborn baby). I had similar problems in the early days with my husband; neither of our families were too pleased that we'd got together, but everything's just fine now - amazingly enough it was my 'modern' family that were worse!

Anyway, good luck with the birth, hope everything goes well and you work things out with your partner and his family.

Btw, I know it's pretty obvious but my favourite Kurdish name is Evîn (very appropriate in your situation too - you said she was conceived in love, what better name) :)

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 5:54 am
Author: Londoner
Hi dear angel6677. Welcome to the site.

Things should work gradually for you, your daughter and her father. I am sure when the little precious arrives both families will fall in love with her.

Regards and best wishes

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 8:50 pm
Author: Tola
Roj Bash Angel6677

Welcome to the forum... congratulation for finding love and for ur pregnancy, hope u all successes and life full of love and joy....

Much Regards...

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:01 pm
Author: Tola
Diri wrote:
(.......)

Cûdî (Judi) = Name of the mountain which according to Kurdish legend is where Noah's Arc went to shore...

(........)


Roj Bash Diri...

True that Judi is a mountain in North Kurdistan, when the flood had occurred at the time of Noah (PBUH), Judi Mountain, happened to be the chosen place for the Ark of Noah to land on it, and this was the beginning of new era of life on our planet....

But this is not by Kurdish people or legend, this is by all holy books.... Bible and Quran....

Much Regards...

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 5:33 pm
Author: Diri
Tola wrote:
Diri wrote:
(.......)

Cûdî (Judi) = Name of the mountain which according to Kurdish legend is where Noah's Arc went to shore...

(........)


Roj Bash Diri...

True that Judi is a mountain in North Kurdistan, when the flood had occurred at the time of Noah (PBUH), Judi Mountain, happened to be the chosen place for the Ark of Noah to land on it, and this was the beginning of new era of life on our planet....

But this is not by Kurdish people or legend, this is by all holy books.... Bible and Quran....

Much Regards...


No, this is Kurdish legend... Because the holy scriptures say that the Arc went ashore on Agrî (Ararat), not Cudî... :wink:

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 1:34 am
Author: Tola
Diri wrote:
No, this is Kurdish legend... Because the holy scriptures say that the Arc went ashore on Agrî (Ararat), not Cudî... :wink:



Allah says in Surah Houd verse 44:

“And it was said: O earth! Swallow your water, and O a sky you uproot. And the water was abated and the commandment was fulfilled. And it came to rest upon Al-Judi (Mountain). And it was said: A far removal for oppressing folk.”

Source:
Holy Quran....

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 10:20 am
Author: Diri
Tola wrote:
Diri wrote:
No, this is Kurdish legend... Because the holy scriptures say that the Arc went ashore on Agrî (Ararat), not Cudî... :wink:



Allah says in Surah Houd verse 44:

“And it was said: O earth! Swallow your water, and O a sky you uproot. And the water was abated and the commandment was fulfilled. And it came to rest upon Al-Judi (Mountain). And it was said: A far removal for oppressing folk.”

Source:
Holy Quran....


Okey :) Thanks for the information...

The Bible says that it went ashore on mount Ararat...

Re: Hallo everyone.

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 2:13 pm
Author: Kulka
Hello Angel!
Welcome on this friendly place and I'm sure you will feel very good here, cause you gonna be among wonderful people from Kurdistan and these from other countries, but connected with Kurdistan just the way you are and me as well. I exactly know, how it is to meet the boy from this wonderful country and to fall in love with. It's forever and so strong that sometimes it's seems to be out of my imagination.
I know everything will be OK with your relationship, anyway even if your boyfriend's family will not be good with you, remember - you still live with him and that is the most important - and it's not only my european opinion, but first of all my Kurdish boyfriend thinks that way. His family is wonderfull, I didn't meet them personally, but only "talk" over internet with His Mother, Brothers, Sister and Cousins (some Cousins I know personally, cause they are in England as well).
I wish you good luck and hope you will stay with us.

Kulka.